Here are some thoughts to you - Why is it when you are driving down the highway you see random shoes? Who throws shoes out the car window, or how do you lose your shoes on the side of the highway? Never mind that why do some find the need to throw shoes up on the power lines? What is with the shoes people?

On our way back from BC just last week we saw one person sticking their shoes out through the sunroof on their car, we're thinking he was attempting to dry them out perhaps? Is this how some people lose their shoes, do you stick them out the roof or window to dry them out and just lose hold of them? Shoes are littering our roadways and even hanging from the power lines.

We go through our daily lives, far removed from the actions that take place around us and we let it pass, these things that others do. Do they affect us or do they not; do we perhaps only think that these things do not bring us any harm? Do we look at our journey after the years have gone by and wonder, ‘Would it have been different if I had said or done something then?’

The fact of the matter is, once the time has gone by you cannot go back and change what has already taken place, you can only change your feelings towards what took place. Many things happen, they may not be momentous to others and that does not matter, what matters is how much it means to you. Do not let others take away from you the feelings of right or wrong and what you know to be true in your heart.

The majority of us go to work every day, or at least our spouse does. Some of us now work from home and some of us still go to jobs that we don’t like all that much. Why do we do this? We do this because we have to earn an income so that we can feed ourselves and continue to have a warm roof over our heads.

Directly from our earnings money is taken and given over to the Government. It does not stop there, you go to the stores and more taxes are taken and also given to the Government. The Government provides services for you as in:

Don't miss out on the good people, no matter what they do in life. Those are my thoughts to you today, look at the heart and find the beauty that is there.

Give a greeting, just say hello. Do not question what they do and why, it doesn't matter to God and it should not matter to you. You go along in life and you wonder, 'Does anyone really care?' Will they miss you when you're gone? Is there a point to it all? If you have the ability to look at the big picture you may even wonder more than you do today?

It's been awhile since I've been here and there are many reasons for my absence. There were many things that I never thought about then, but do now, and I send these thoughts out to you. Life they say, it isn't very fair, or so it seems. I understand the reasons, but it does not mean I have to like the reasons.

I lost you and there is not really anyone that I care to turn to. There is not another you and there never will be. When I was in pain, I could not call and talk to you so that I could stop thinking about it. One week Mother, one week after your passing I ended up in emergency three times so they could help me deal with the pain of passing a stone. We think, oh my gosh, wasn't that enough and now I have to pass a kidney stone as well?